Since today is my 31st birthday, I decided to do 31 random thoughts, quotes and verses that are important to me and have in some way shaped my life and how I try to live it. I know this is long but it is my birthday and the one day out of the year that I can get away with being on a soapbox. If you read to the end, kudos to you! Thanks for reading! Comments are always appreciated.
1. “He has shown you, O man, what is good;
And what does the Lord require of you
But to do justly,
To love mercy,
And to walk humbly with your God?" -Micah 6:8
2. “Treat others the way you want to be treated” -Jesus Christ (paraphrased, see Luke 6:31)
3. “Bloom wherever you’re planted.” -Unknown
4. “As we let our light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.” -Nelson Mandella
5. “I will act as if what I do makes a difference.” -William James
6. “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” -Eleanor Roosevelt
7. “Life isn’t so much about being a good runner as it is about being a good hurdler.” -JK
8. “Memories are all we really own.” -Elias Lieberman
9. “The grass is always a little greener after the storm.” -Unknown
10. “What you are is God’s gift to you. What you make of yourself is your gift to God.” -Unknown
11. Have you ever noticed that peer pressure doesn’t go away after the teenage years? It rolls over into the way you parent, the car you drive, what kind of house you buy and on and on. At least teenagers have the courage to voice their opinion to the other’s face instead of in gossip like most adults do.
12. “Be the lead dog because the other dogs don’t get a good view, they just see other dogs’ rear-ends.” -My Uncle Gary
13. “If it’s not helpful to the person you’re talking to or the person you’re talking about, then don’t say it.” -Jim Warren
14. “I’m continually moved by Christ’s willingness, not just to meet us halfway, but, like the father of the prodigal, to run the entire distance once we take the first step in His direction.” -Beth Moore
15. “On your way up the ladder, don’t step on anyone else because you never know when you’ll need to come back down that ladder.” My Grandpa Bryant
16. “If we did all the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves.” -Thomas Edison
17. “Of all the rights of women, the greatest is to be a mother.” -Lin Yutang
18. “If you do it right the first time, you don’t have to go back and do it again.” -Mom
19. “Life is short, it’s up to you to make it sweet.” -Sadie Delany
20. “A man who wants to lead the orchestra must turn his back on the crowd.” -Unknown
21. “Don’t depend on a rabbit’s foot for luck. Remember, it didn’t work too well for the rabbit.” -Anonymous
22. “You don’t have to tell others everything you know because then they’ll know everything they know plus everything you know. It’s good to keep some things to yourself.” -My Grandpa Roberts
23. “Think for yourself. Be a leader.” -Dad
24. “I praise loudly, I blame softly.” -Catherine II of Russia
25. “When you belong to God, you have the privilege of expecting what others cannot see or imagine.” -Angela Thomas
26. “I am conservative on the fundamentals of the faith like Jesus Christ, the Bible, the resurrection and those "essentials" but I am very liberal in grace and love and forgiveness and all the things that I see God liberally giving to us.” –Curt Bradford
27. “There is no cosmetic for beauty like happiness.” -Lady Blessington
28. “You know, if we had kids, they’d have blue eyes.” -Caleb Kesler (on our 1st date- no joke)
29. “…Peace means the absence of fear and turmoil, not the absence of pain and grief.” -Beth Moore
30. In my 31 years with all of my moves, experience, exposure to many kinds of people and cultures I’ve learned some things about the human race. We all bleed red, we all have hurts & insecurities, there are wonderful people all over the world in all shapes, sizes and colors and we all need Christ as our Savior.
31. “And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength….You shall love your neighbor as yourself. There is no other commandment greater than these.” Mark 12:30&31
Sunday, December 30, 2007
Saturday, December 29, 2007
Serious Disappointment
For the last week I've been planning on everything I wanted to do while in Arizona. I've been planning on giving my dad plenty of "Elle time" so he can get to know her a little better and spoil her by taking her outside and walking around teaching her things for hours. (that's what my dad is known for with the littlest grand babies) Caleb and I have talked about taking my dad's jeep out and watching the sunset (one of our favorite things to do) and all kinds of little things that mean a lot to us. Bry and DJ have been beside themselves with plans of fun times with Momo & Papa and running around their 5 acres, which is any kids' dream place. So I spent Wednesday and Thursday doing laundry and packing. In addition to clothes, I packed my nephews' and brothers' and sister's Christmas gifts. I couldn't wait to get to AZ.
My brother gave us buddy passes and I knew that their was a risk involved but since we checked everything out online in advance, I thought FOR SURE we'd get there on schedule. WRONGO! Not only did we not get there on time, we didn't get there at all. After being bumped from 5 different flights and none really looking good for the next couple of days, we gave up at Philadelphia and decided to come back home. I felt like a kid because I actually had to walk away from the customer service desk so the lady wouldn't see me cry. The hardest part was calling my dad to tell him. I was weepy for the rest of the day. Then I got home, fell into bed and napped for awhile. I was seriously sleep deprived and emotionally drained. Now I'm feeling a little better but I have to admit, I'm still really sad. I guess it just wasn't meant to be this time around.
My brother gave us buddy passes and I knew that their was a risk involved but since we checked everything out online in advance, I thought FOR SURE we'd get there on schedule. WRONGO! Not only did we not get there on time, we didn't get there at all. After being bumped from 5 different flights and none really looking good for the next couple of days, we gave up at Philadelphia and decided to come back home. I felt like a kid because I actually had to walk away from the customer service desk so the lady wouldn't see me cry. The hardest part was calling my dad to tell him. I was weepy for the rest of the day. Then I got home, fell into bed and napped for awhile. I was seriously sleep deprived and emotionally drained. Now I'm feeling a little better but I have to admit, I'm still really sad. I guess it just wasn't meant to be this time around.
Wednesday, December 26, 2007
Tuesday, December 25, 2007
It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year...
We have had such a great time preparing for and celebrating Christmas this year! Last year we had just closed on our house on Dec 8th and began moving in on the 9th, which left very little time to shop and decorate for Christmas. We've been anticipating the enjoyment of the Christmas season for a year now! So this year we really indulged in baking, hanging lights, wrapping gifts, listening to the songs and simply enjoying the season. Yesterday Caleb and I laughed hysterically at the line in Little Drummer Boy that says, "The ox and lamb kept time..." We both acted out parts as an ox or a lamb stomping our hooves, swinging our (immaginary) tail or baaaaa-ing in beat. Pretty funny stuff if you can get a visual of the two of us acting it out between lauging so hard we could barely breath!
Last night we attended our church's candlelight service. It was fun to dress the kids up in their Christmas clothes and go sing beautiful songs and take communion as we celebrated God's love for us. How significant those songs are when we consider that the God of the universe loved us enough to take on flesh and walk among us and ultimately die for us. It still amazes me and I hope that it never because mundane for us. Next we headed over to our good friends' house for a wonderful dinner, games and a lot of laughs.
Today we went to my cousin Deb's house and had a terrific time together! It was so great to just visit, eat and share the day together. On Friday, we plan to fly to AZ to see my family. I can hardly wait and I just want to pinch myself when I think about it. Sunday is my 31st birthday and I'm excited that I get to spend it with my parents! I absolutely LOVE this time of year and getting to go home to AZ makes it that much more special!
Last night we attended our church's candlelight service. It was fun to dress the kids up in their Christmas clothes and go sing beautiful songs and take communion as we celebrated God's love for us. How significant those songs are when we consider that the God of the universe loved us enough to take on flesh and walk among us and ultimately die for us. It still amazes me and I hope that it never because mundane for us. Next we headed over to our good friends' house for a wonderful dinner, games and a lot of laughs.
Today we went to my cousin Deb's house and had a terrific time together! It was so great to just visit, eat and share the day together. On Friday, we plan to fly to AZ to see my family. I can hardly wait and I just want to pinch myself when I think about it. Sunday is my 31st birthday and I'm excited that I get to spend it with my parents! I absolutely LOVE this time of year and getting to go home to AZ makes it that much more special!
Thursday, December 20, 2007
Thursday's 13 ~ Things About Our Kids
1. Out of our 3 children, only 1 of them can whistle. It's the 1 year old!
2. Delainey is starting to learn the names of letters and the sounds they make. She LOVES to "play school" and "do homework".
3. Tonight at the dinner table Bryant said "Come to Papa" to a sugar-snap pea he was getting ready to eat. Then he accidentally dropped it on the table and he dramatically said, "I just dropped my grandson!". (to him, Papa means grandfather- their interpretation of things is so funny!)
4. Elle has now added "yes" and "Momo" to her vocabulary!
5. Bryant is finally getting good at cleaning his own room and keeping things organized without me having to walk him through every step!!
6. I have yet to meet another kid who is the dominant one around Delainey. I'm not sure if that is a good thing or a bad thing.
7. Bryant was honored to receive the Kiwanis "Terrific Kid" award this month!
8. Delainey recently informed us that she wants us to take her to the airport so she can get on an airplane and fly to Michigan ALONE! She stressed that she did not want us going to Granny & Pops house with her but that she'd be back home soon, as long as she got to go all by herself.
9. Elle has recently learned to walk and has progressed from a "Drunk Orangutan" to a "Sober Orangutan". It is so fun watching her motor around the house with this new found independence.
10. Delainey would rather help me in the kitchen than play with any toy in the world. This makes it difficult to get dishes done or dinner on the table but I am so honored that she loves to spend time with me that much!
11. Elle is finally putting on a little weight and seems much more energetic since we've started giving her iron drops!
12. Bryant just asked a couple of weeks ago if he could be baptized, which we are absolutely ecstatic about!
13. Our computer now is used more for things like barbie.com, lego.com, pbs.org and kid things than the normal stuff like finances and e-mail. I find myself competing with the kids for computer time.
There is never a day that goes by that they don't make us laugh out loud. We hope there is never a day that goes by where we don't realize just how incredibly blessed we are! The choice for me to stay at home with our children has financial sacrifices but I wouldn't trade all the money in the world for the memories I get to make with these precious little ones. I thank the Lord continuously for blessing me far beyond anything I could ever deserve!
2. Delainey is starting to learn the names of letters and the sounds they make. She LOVES to "play school" and "do homework".
3. Tonight at the dinner table Bryant said "Come to Papa" to a sugar-snap pea he was getting ready to eat. Then he accidentally dropped it on the table and he dramatically said, "I just dropped my grandson!". (to him, Papa means grandfather- their interpretation of things is so funny!)
4. Elle has now added "yes" and "Momo" to her vocabulary!
5. Bryant is finally getting good at cleaning his own room and keeping things organized without me having to walk him through every step!!
6. I have yet to meet another kid who is the dominant one around Delainey. I'm not sure if that is a good thing or a bad thing.
7. Bryant was honored to receive the Kiwanis "Terrific Kid" award this month!
8. Delainey recently informed us that she wants us to take her to the airport so she can get on an airplane and fly to Michigan ALONE! She stressed that she did not want us going to Granny & Pops house with her but that she'd be back home soon, as long as she got to go all by herself.
9. Elle has recently learned to walk and has progressed from a "Drunk Orangutan" to a "Sober Orangutan". It is so fun watching her motor around the house with this new found independence.
10. Delainey would rather help me in the kitchen than play with any toy in the world. This makes it difficult to get dishes done or dinner on the table but I am so honored that she loves to spend time with me that much!
11. Elle is finally putting on a little weight and seems much more energetic since we've started giving her iron drops!
12. Bryant just asked a couple of weeks ago if he could be baptized, which we are absolutely ecstatic about!
13. Our computer now is used more for things like barbie.com, lego.com, pbs.org and kid things than the normal stuff like finances and e-mail. I find myself competing with the kids for computer time.
There is never a day that goes by that they don't make us laugh out loud. We hope there is never a day that goes by where we don't realize just how incredibly blessed we are! The choice for me to stay at home with our children has financial sacrifices but I wouldn't trade all the money in the world for the memories I get to make with these precious little ones. I thank the Lord continuously for blessing me far beyond anything I could ever deserve!
Saturday, December 15, 2007
I did the personality test thing, do you agree with the results?...
You Are An ENFJ |
 The Giver You strive to maintain harmony in relationships, and usually succeed. Articulate and enthusiastic, you are good at making personal connections. Sometimes you idealize relationships too much - and end up being let down. You find the most energy and comfort in social situations ... where you shine. In love, you are very protective and supporting. However, you do need to "feel special" - and it's quite easy for you to get jealous. At work, you are a natural leader. You can help people discover their greatest potential. You would make a good writer, human resources director, or psychologist. How you see yourself: Trusting, idealistic, and expressive When other people don't get you, they see you as: Bossy, inappropriate, and loud |
Monday, December 10, 2007
Gradparents Rock!
We had the privilege in the last week of having both my mom and Caleb's parents come to visit. Not at the same time, but within 2 days of each other. This is truly the highlight of our kids' year- having grandparents visit. My dad, "Papa", wasn't able to come this time around but we're going to keep on him until he is able to break away from work and come see these kids who miss him like crazy. I know it must have nearly killed him to let my mom come without him. That's truly unselfish love!
When my mom was here we went downtown and mostly just spent quality time together. It was very refreshing for her to get away from her new restaurant and take a breather- but it was just as refreshing for me and Caleb. Time with Mom is always a treasure. And of course, the kids love having Momo in the house because she is such a tender, loving influence. They each get to share so many precious moments with her, like a tender cuddle session or a sweet song. She is a teacher at heart, always finding a life lesson in the simplest things. She imparts wisdom in their lives and I believe she prays a great deal for this legacy she and my dad have built. She is especially good at soothing and nurturing. Simply put, she just warms up a room. Delainey told her "We're going to hold on to your legs so you can't leave." Sadly, I did take her to the airport last Tuesday. I drove away with tears stinging my eyes because I knew I wouldn't get to see her again for a few months. But God has really blessed us with my older brother's job at USAirways so my parents fly for about $50 round-trip. At least I get to look forward to visits every few months. I can't wait until the next visit. Next time, WE WANT PAPA TOO!
We also took Caleb's parents downtown and enjoyed the beautifully decorated stores and buildings that really get me into the "Christmas spirit". We also spent a lot of time around the house- decorating for Christmas and baking. Caleb's parents are always so helpful with things like yard work. Caleb's dad likes to jump in and mow the lawn or whatever else he sees he could help in. He's been known to strip and re-wax a tiled floor in a day just to pass the time. He loves projects he can put his heart into. Since he loves us so much, anything that helps us, he puts his heart into. Caleb's mom is notoriously fun for the kids. She loves to read books, jump on the trampoline, sing songs, go to the movies and bake cookies. She does such a great job of spending time with the kids and making memories. The kids sing the songs she has taught them, months after a visit. Bryant sang "John Jacob Jingle-Heimer Schmitt" since he could first talk because his Granny taught it to him. There is no shortage of fun when Granny and Pops are in town! We also opened presents from Granny & Pops while they were here. Caleb's parents have bought probably more than 50% of our children's clothes and toys over the years. They are extremely generous to us and we appreciate the countless ways they give to us.
What an exciting month December is this year! Grandparents AND Christmas, what more could a kid want? Oh, I know, they want Papa too!
(I'll try to post pictures from these visits soon)
When my mom was here we went downtown and mostly just spent quality time together. It was very refreshing for her to get away from her new restaurant and take a breather- but it was just as refreshing for me and Caleb. Time with Mom is always a treasure. And of course, the kids love having Momo in the house because she is such a tender, loving influence. They each get to share so many precious moments with her, like a tender cuddle session or a sweet song. She is a teacher at heart, always finding a life lesson in the simplest things. She imparts wisdom in their lives and I believe she prays a great deal for this legacy she and my dad have built. She is especially good at soothing and nurturing. Simply put, she just warms up a room. Delainey told her "We're going to hold on to your legs so you can't leave." Sadly, I did take her to the airport last Tuesday. I drove away with tears stinging my eyes because I knew I wouldn't get to see her again for a few months. But God has really blessed us with my older brother's job at USAirways so my parents fly for about $50 round-trip. At least I get to look forward to visits every few months. I can't wait until the next visit. Next time, WE WANT PAPA TOO!
We also took Caleb's parents downtown and enjoyed the beautifully decorated stores and buildings that really get me into the "Christmas spirit". We also spent a lot of time around the house- decorating for Christmas and baking. Caleb's parents are always so helpful with things like yard work. Caleb's dad likes to jump in and mow the lawn or whatever else he sees he could help in. He's been known to strip and re-wax a tiled floor in a day just to pass the time. He loves projects he can put his heart into. Since he loves us so much, anything that helps us, he puts his heart into. Caleb's mom is notoriously fun for the kids. She loves to read books, jump on the trampoline, sing songs, go to the movies and bake cookies. She does such a great job of spending time with the kids and making memories. The kids sing the songs she has taught them, months after a visit. Bryant sang "John Jacob Jingle-Heimer Schmitt" since he could first talk because his Granny taught it to him. There is no shortage of fun when Granny and Pops are in town! We also opened presents from Granny & Pops while they were here. Caleb's parents have bought probably more than 50% of our children's clothes and toys over the years. They are extremely generous to us and we appreciate the countless ways they give to us.
What an exciting month December is this year! Grandparents AND Christmas, what more could a kid want? Oh, I know, they want Papa too!
(I'll try to post pictures from these visits soon)
Wednesday, December 5, 2007
Unexpected Blessings
It was 9:30 p.m., last night. My mind was racing through all the things I needed to do today like wash sheets, clean bathrooms, dust and prepare for our company who would arrive the day after. Just as I was getting ready to slip into bed, the phone rang. I was surprised my friend would be calling me so late but I'm glad I answered. She said she had just been given 4 tickets to go see Beauty and the Beast at the College of Charleston. She wanted to know if the girls and I could join her early the next morning.
I had already decided I couldn't add ANYTHING to my schedule for today because I had way more on my plate than I could resonably handle. I took five minutes to think it over and called her back to accept her invitation. So I got up at 5am this morning, got Bry off to school, got myself and the girls ready and headed downtown. After wandering downtown for a little while, we finally found our way to the Theatre. We thoroughly enjoyed the show. Elle sat through the entire thing, clapping and saying "Oooo" on the pretty parts. Delainey was a little nervous about the beast but ended up liking the whole thing very much.
So, as if I'm not far enough behind today, now I'm sitting down to blog about it! It was a great time and even though I blew off a "To-Do" list of about 30 things, I'm so thankful for the opportunity! ...Now, I'm off to work!
I had already decided I couldn't add ANYTHING to my schedule for today because I had way more on my plate than I could resonably handle. I took five minutes to think it over and called her back to accept her invitation. So I got up at 5am this morning, got Bry off to school, got myself and the girls ready and headed downtown. After wandering downtown for a little while, we finally found our way to the Theatre. We thoroughly enjoyed the show. Elle sat through the entire thing, clapping and saying "Oooo" on the pretty parts. Delainey was a little nervous about the beast but ended up liking the whole thing very much.
So, as if I'm not far enough behind today, now I'm sitting down to blog about it! It was a great time and even though I blew off a "To-Do" list of about 30 things, I'm so thankful for the opportunity! ...Now, I'm off to work!
Tuesday, October 23, 2007
24 Things I Love About My Sister…
Today is my sister’s 24th birthday. In honor of her, I wanted to write 24 of the many things I love about her.
1. She has a great deal of courage. She moved out when she was 18 to pursue her college, dreams and career. She also moved to Hawaii even though she knew no one else on the island because she had a dream to pursue.
2. She keeps it real and simple. Stacy’s not afraid to be seen with out makeup (she shouldn’t be since she’s naturally gorgeous) and she’s not too proud to cry in front of people. She’s not fake and she’s not fussy- just herself.
3. She has an amazing ability to interact with children. Stacy has always had such a love for children. She adores her nieces and nephews and has always made time to converse with children. Even as a teenager, she loved the kids she taught swimming lessons to almost as much as they loved her.
4. Stacy has a great sense of style. She can make flip-flops look good with anything and she can pull the best outfit together on a modest budget.
5. She has great hair, which I can’t give her credit for since she was born with it, but it’s hers none-the-less. She has this gorgeous, golden curly hair that makes anyone who sees it, want that kind of hair.
6. She has a priority of family. Our family is so important to her and she shows her love by going out of her way to spend time with everyone.
7. Her example of great work ethic. Since her teenage years, she has been promoted to positions of authority. She takes her work seriously and even missed Delainey’s birth so that she wouldn’t miss her shift because she knew people were counting on her.
8. She has such a great smile. I love the little gap between her front teeth and I love her dimples too.
9. She is a faithful friend. She is still in touch with so many friends from different times in her life. People see her from high school and know that no matter what or how long it’s been, Stacy is still their friend.
10. Stacy cares for the less fortunate. I remember when Stacy was in school she bought a very poor girl a pair of jeans for her birthday because she knew she didn’t have much. Stacy doesn’t classify people or befriend someone because of their status. She sees everyone as equal and as a potential friend.
11. She gives the best massages ever! It helps that she went to massage therapy school and that she has very strong arms. I loved it when she was in training and “needed to practice” massage. I was always a willing recipient.
12. A part of me will always see her as a beautiful little curly-headed girl with big dimples. No matter how old Stacy gets, I can always remember what an absolute doll she was as a little girl. I love that I was old enough to keep those precious memories of her as a baby and toddler.
13. She is very tender hearted. She is moved and touched by sweet things.
14. She’s resourceful. She can make the most of a tough situation and she’s good with stretching a budget.
15. She’s a dreamer and a romantic. She approaches situations with optimism and goodness. Like with owning a dog, she never owned a dog and didn’t know what all it entailed, but loved the idea of having a dog. It was tough, but she’s happily an owner of a sweet dog named Bert. (I call him Mr. Reynolds)
16. She loves old people. Stacy is so respectful and kind to older people. She always shows respect and takes time to talk with her elders as if they were a good friend.
17. Stacy is ambitious and intelligent. She dreams big and goes after it. She is fully capable and I think people who meet her recognize that.
18. She has such a great sense of adventure. She loves hiking, the outdoors and trying new things.
19. She is the perfect mixture of being girlie and a tom-boy. She’s beautiful but also strong.
20. She has dimples. Who doesn’t love dimples? I know I mentioned them before, but they are worth repeating.
21. Her crooked pinky finger. Not sure why, but I love that about her too.
22. I love the way she gets goofy when she’s sleepy. Maybe because I know the feeling.
23. She can beat me in a swimming race (which wasn’t always the case).
24. Her persevering attitude- she doesn’t give up when she’s had 2 car accidents in 2 weeks, a bad report from the Dr. and finances are tight- all at the same time.
Happy Birthday Stacy! We love you and miss you!
The Keslers
1. She has a great deal of courage. She moved out when she was 18 to pursue her college, dreams and career. She also moved to Hawaii even though she knew no one else on the island because she had a dream to pursue.
2. She keeps it real and simple. Stacy’s not afraid to be seen with out makeup (she shouldn’t be since she’s naturally gorgeous) and she’s not too proud to cry in front of people. She’s not fake and she’s not fussy- just herself.
3. She has an amazing ability to interact with children. Stacy has always had such a love for children. She adores her nieces and nephews and has always made time to converse with children. Even as a teenager, she loved the kids she taught swimming lessons to almost as much as they loved her.
4. Stacy has a great sense of style. She can make flip-flops look good with anything and she can pull the best outfit together on a modest budget.
5. She has great hair, which I can’t give her credit for since she was born with it, but it’s hers none-the-less. She has this gorgeous, golden curly hair that makes anyone who sees it, want that kind of hair.
6. She has a priority of family. Our family is so important to her and she shows her love by going out of her way to spend time with everyone.
7. Her example of great work ethic. Since her teenage years, she has been promoted to positions of authority. She takes her work seriously and even missed Delainey’s birth so that she wouldn’t miss her shift because she knew people were counting on her.
8. She has such a great smile. I love the little gap between her front teeth and I love her dimples too.
9. She is a faithful friend. She is still in touch with so many friends from different times in her life. People see her from high school and know that no matter what or how long it’s been, Stacy is still their friend.
10. Stacy cares for the less fortunate. I remember when Stacy was in school she bought a very poor girl a pair of jeans for her birthday because she knew she didn’t have much. Stacy doesn’t classify people or befriend someone because of their status. She sees everyone as equal and as a potential friend.
11. She gives the best massages ever! It helps that she went to massage therapy school and that she has very strong arms. I loved it when she was in training and “needed to practice” massage. I was always a willing recipient.
12. A part of me will always see her as a beautiful little curly-headed girl with big dimples. No matter how old Stacy gets, I can always remember what an absolute doll she was as a little girl. I love that I was old enough to keep those precious memories of her as a baby and toddler.
13. She is very tender hearted. She is moved and touched by sweet things.
14. She’s resourceful. She can make the most of a tough situation and she’s good with stretching a budget.
15. She’s a dreamer and a romantic. She approaches situations with optimism and goodness. Like with owning a dog, she never owned a dog and didn’t know what all it entailed, but loved the idea of having a dog. It was tough, but she’s happily an owner of a sweet dog named Bert. (I call him Mr. Reynolds)
16. She loves old people. Stacy is so respectful and kind to older people. She always shows respect and takes time to talk with her elders as if they were a good friend.
17. Stacy is ambitious and intelligent. She dreams big and goes after it. She is fully capable and I think people who meet her recognize that.
18. She has such a great sense of adventure. She loves hiking, the outdoors and trying new things.
19. She is the perfect mixture of being girlie and a tom-boy. She’s beautiful but also strong.
20. She has dimples. Who doesn’t love dimples? I know I mentioned them before, but they are worth repeating.
21. Her crooked pinky finger. Not sure why, but I love that about her too.
22. I love the way she gets goofy when she’s sleepy. Maybe because I know the feeling.
23. She can beat me in a swimming race (which wasn’t always the case).
24. Her persevering attitude- she doesn’t give up when she’s had 2 car accidents in 2 weeks, a bad report from the Dr. and finances are tight- all at the same time.
Happy Birthday Stacy! We love you and miss you!
The Keslers
Thursday, October 18, 2007
Thursday's 13 ~ Things I will never out grow
1. State Fairs. I love the smells, the rides, the people watching and the highly unhealthy food.
2. Seeing bathing suit tan lines in the mirror. I love the satisfaction that comes from realizing I got a tan!
3. Freshly painted toe nails. They just make you feel pretty.
4. Seeing my parents happy. There's no feeling like it.
5. Being in love with my knight in shinning armor. I've always been a romantic.
6. Wrapping up in a blanket on the couch and watching a good movie. That doesn't happen much these days, but I love the rare ocassion.
7. Going to a high school football game. The big lights, loud crowd, the band and silly young cheerleaders.
8. Reading kids books that rhyme. "I will not eat them in a boat, I will not eat them with a goat..."
9. Taking road trips. I guess this comes from growing up in a small town where going out of town was a regular part of our routine for groceries and stuff. I love maps, travel plans and new places to see.
10. Tea parties. Loved to pretend when I was little and love to do them for real now.
11. Playing tag. There is something hilarious and exilerating about someone trying to get you. Last time I played tag in my backyard with the kids, I laughed so hard that my stomache hurt!
12. Camping. Love everything about it. My absolute best childhood memories are camping in the White Mountains of AZ when I was little.
13. Wanting my mom when I'm sick. Caleb is sweet when I'm sick but there's just something about Mom's TLC when I'm under the weather.
2. Seeing bathing suit tan lines in the mirror. I love the satisfaction that comes from realizing I got a tan!
3. Freshly painted toe nails. They just make you feel pretty.
4. Seeing my parents happy. There's no feeling like it.
5. Being in love with my knight in shinning armor. I've always been a romantic.
6. Wrapping up in a blanket on the couch and watching a good movie. That doesn't happen much these days, but I love the rare ocassion.
7. Going to a high school football game. The big lights, loud crowd, the band and silly young cheerleaders.
8. Reading kids books that rhyme. "I will not eat them in a boat, I will not eat them with a goat..."
9. Taking road trips. I guess this comes from growing up in a small town where going out of town was a regular part of our routine for groceries and stuff. I love maps, travel plans and new places to see.
10. Tea parties. Loved to pretend when I was little and love to do them for real now.
11. Playing tag. There is something hilarious and exilerating about someone trying to get you. Last time I played tag in my backyard with the kids, I laughed so hard that my stomache hurt!
12. Camping. Love everything about it. My absolute best childhood memories are camping in the White Mountains of AZ when I was little.
13. Wanting my mom when I'm sick. Caleb is sweet when I'm sick but there's just something about Mom's TLC when I'm under the weather.
Friday, October 12, 2007
What's Cooking?
There once was a girl named Bella. She was a typical stay at home mom, often doubting her self worth and struggled through common issues of finances, being fun and creative with the kids and staying focused. After a long season of frustration and feeling defeated, she woke up one morning and decided to do her best that day. She couldn't do a lot but she could give her best effort at a good attitude and filling her home with love. She got up early and had the right attitude. She settled the matter of Who was her Authority nice and early then danced on through her chores, changing diapers, doing laundry and spending quality time with her little ones. Bella was on a tight budget but remembered she had several apples and all the necessities in her modest pantry to make a pie for her friend who just had a baby. She involved her kids as they added dashes of cinnamon, tabs of butter and a lot of sugar. The pies looked beautiful as she put them in the oven. She opened her kitchen window to let in some of the cool Fall air and to let some of the oven's heat escape the small kitchen...
Bella's neighbor Miss Emily went outside to mow. The moment she walked out the door she smelled something that was heavenly. It reminded her of growing up in England when her grandmother would make puff pastry apple tarts. Miss Emily decided to make some of these little tarts and take them to the retirement home she sometimes volunteered at. It had been years since Miss Emily baked these but she managed to find the recipe and she couldn't deny they were the best she'd ever made! At the retirement home a young intern sampled one of Miss Emily's tarts and she was so moved at her generosity that she decided to do some baking later that evening. She baked some peanut butter cookies and took a plate to the young couple in the apartment under hers. The young wife invited her in and they talked for over an hour as they began a friendship that they would find to last a lifetime. What a pleasant surprise the evening was for both of them. A few days later, the wife made a large meal and returned her neighbor's plate with a beautiful dinner for that evening. The apartment complex smelled so delicious with all this cooking happening that people throughout the building were baking this and cooking that because of the wonderful smells that inspired them.
I wondered how this story would have gone if Bella didn't wake up ready to give her best at the beginning of the story. If she would have sat around in defeat and decided that making a pie wasn't her idea of a fun day. Maybe no one else would have been inspired to bake either. That wouldn't have made for a fun story. Moral of the story? We don't always know how we're inspiring or impacting people. We can just do our best and hope His fragrance reaches others.
What's cooking at your house?
Bella's neighbor Miss Emily went outside to mow. The moment she walked out the door she smelled something that was heavenly. It reminded her of growing up in England when her grandmother would make puff pastry apple tarts. Miss Emily decided to make some of these little tarts and take them to the retirement home she sometimes volunteered at. It had been years since Miss Emily baked these but she managed to find the recipe and she couldn't deny they were the best she'd ever made! At the retirement home a young intern sampled one of Miss Emily's tarts and she was so moved at her generosity that she decided to do some baking later that evening. She baked some peanut butter cookies and took a plate to the young couple in the apartment under hers. The young wife invited her in and they talked for over an hour as they began a friendship that they would find to last a lifetime. What a pleasant surprise the evening was for both of them. A few days later, the wife made a large meal and returned her neighbor's plate with a beautiful dinner for that evening. The apartment complex smelled so delicious with all this cooking happening that people throughout the building were baking this and cooking that because of the wonderful smells that inspired them.
I wondered how this story would have gone if Bella didn't wake up ready to give her best at the beginning of the story. If she would have sat around in defeat and decided that making a pie wasn't her idea of a fun day. Maybe no one else would have been inspired to bake either. That wouldn't have made for a fun story. Moral of the story? We don't always know how we're inspiring or impacting people. We can just do our best and hope His fragrance reaches others.
What's cooking at your house?
Wednesday, October 10, 2007
Great book?
If you're looking for a GREAT book, I just read "The Grace and Truth Paradox" by Randy Alcorn. I read it about 3 years ago and it impacted me so much, I wanted to read it again. I think I'm going to read it once a year to remind me of this balance that I need in my life. It's a short read but it truly is life changing. The theme of the book is the essential, perfect balance of grace and truth. It also touches on many different topics, here are just a few: conservative vs liberal, our society's mindset of entitlement, and looking at our own sins -are they any better than say, Hitler's? ...check it out!
"When a musical instrument's strings go loose, it sounds awful. But you can also overtighten the strings, breaking them or creating discord. There's a perfect tension to grace and truth which makes the gospel (good news) music."
"When you know you deserve eternal hell, it puts a 'bad day' in perspective! If you realize you're undeserving, suddenly the world comes alive- you're surprised and grateful and God's many kindnesses that were invisible when you thought you deserved better. Instead of drowning in self-pity, you're floating on a sea of gratitude."
"Pride is a heavy burden. There is nothing like that feeling of lightness when God graciously lifts our self-illusions from our shoulders. Even refusing to forgive ourselves is an act of pride- it's making ourselves and our sins bigger than God and His grace."
"When a musical instrument's strings go loose, it sounds awful. But you can also overtighten the strings, breaking them or creating discord. There's a perfect tension to grace and truth which makes the gospel (good news) music."
"When you know you deserve eternal hell, it puts a 'bad day' in perspective! If you realize you're undeserving, suddenly the world comes alive- you're surprised and grateful and God's many kindnesses that were invisible when you thought you deserved better. Instead of drowning in self-pity, you're floating on a sea of gratitude."
"Pride is a heavy burden. There is nothing like that feeling of lightness when God graciously lifts our self-illusions from our shoulders. Even refusing to forgive ourselves is an act of pride- it's making ourselves and our sins bigger than God and His grace."
Sunday, October 7, 2007
Lost and Found ...and not giving up!
Our morning started early today- Caleb's earlier than mine. He was up a little after 6am, which is unusual for a Sunday morning. He got up to get some chores done before the kids and I rose. (What a guy) He came back into our room later and said, "I set your alarm to let you sleep a little longer. Oh, and I found your sunglasses" My tired body perked up at these words, "WHERE?", I asked. He said they were right next to my side of the bed by my nightstand.
I have been looking for these sunglasses for over two weeks now. I have looked in every place I could imagine and have called a couple places I thought I might have accidentally left them. I even went so far as to wait in line at the Walmart customer service place to check with their lost and found. What's the big deal?, you might think. The thing is, Caleb bought me these $120 Arnettes a couple of years ago for Christmas and even though they're just a pair of sunglasses, they're special to me. Well, at the 2 week mark and after looking every where I could imagine, I had given up on Friday. I knew they were lost forever. Both Caleb and my friend Annie kept saying, "They'll turn up", but I was certain they really wouldn't.
Today proved me wrong. I cannot tell you how much this encouraged me on so many levels about many issues in my life right now. I had slept just a couple of feet from those sunglasses every night for the last 15 nights! I have vacuumed right by them and made my bed without noticing them. They were there, hidden away all along. I know it's crazy, but it has given me the encouragement to hang on in some areas I've been very tempted to give up in. Now I'm glad I lost my sunglasses because maybe I wouldn't have been inspired to "keep on keeping on" with some things that appear hopeless to my impatient eyes. I think in some situations maybe the answer is nearby and I just need to wait for the right timing to FIND the solution.
I have been looking for these sunglasses for over two weeks now. I have looked in every place I could imagine and have called a couple places I thought I might have accidentally left them. I even went so far as to wait in line at the Walmart customer service place to check with their lost and found. What's the big deal?, you might think. The thing is, Caleb bought me these $120 Arnettes a couple of years ago for Christmas and even though they're just a pair of sunglasses, they're special to me. Well, at the 2 week mark and after looking every where I could imagine, I had given up on Friday. I knew they were lost forever. Both Caleb and my friend Annie kept saying, "They'll turn up", but I was certain they really wouldn't.
Today proved me wrong. I cannot tell you how much this encouraged me on so many levels about many issues in my life right now. I had slept just a couple of feet from those sunglasses every night for the last 15 nights! I have vacuumed right by them and made my bed without noticing them. They were there, hidden away all along. I know it's crazy, but it has given me the encouragement to hang on in some areas I've been very tempted to give up in. Now I'm glad I lost my sunglasses because maybe I wouldn't have been inspired to "keep on keeping on" with some things that appear hopeless to my impatient eyes. I think in some situations maybe the answer is nearby and I just need to wait for the right timing to FIND the solution.
Saturday, October 6, 2007
Gratitude
Have you ever kept a gratitude journal? I have one but I'm ashamed to admit I haven't written in it for quite a while. My purpose for starting a gratitude journal was to challenge myself to come up with 10 things everyday that I am thankful for without duplicating anything. So, you know, the first week you cover all the expected things that you're obviously immeasurably grateful for... husband, children, family, God's love, good health, a warm home, food, clothing... the most important things in our lives. Then week after week it gets more challenging to think of things to thank God for. When I journal in this way consistently, I find myself getting more and more creative and really thinking about the millions of blessings we enjoy each day. Beautiful sunsets, cool breezes, flowers, trees, a car with A/C, running water, shoes that fit, grocery stores nearby, money to buy groceries, friends who tell you the truth- even when it's not what you want to hear, competent people, eyes to see, morning rain... I could go on and on.
Today at lunch Delainey started eating and she gasped, as she sometimes does and said, "I forgot to pray!" So she prayed out loud and thanked God for her food and then thanked Him for every person in our family as well as grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins. This is something her and Bryant often do and the thing that surprises me is that we've never really taught them to. It's almost as if they can't wait to say each person's name to God to really tell Him how glad they are to know that person. I love to hear them do this because it's precious to hear them go through this long list of names in their head while their food is sitting in front of them but the food isn't the most important thing at that moment. I think they really have it right when it comes to gratitude. They don't go through a list of toys, video games or any material item that they're thankful for. They go through a list of the people they are glad to have in their life. What a good example to me to be thankful for so many great people in my life! Also, what a great reminder that my children don't want more stuff, they want more quality time. No matter what my budget, I can provide that! I want to think more like them. Simple and grateful.
Today at lunch Delainey started eating and she gasped, as she sometimes does and said, "I forgot to pray!" So she prayed out loud and thanked God for her food and then thanked Him for every person in our family as well as grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins. This is something her and Bryant often do and the thing that surprises me is that we've never really taught them to. It's almost as if they can't wait to say each person's name to God to really tell Him how glad they are to know that person. I love to hear them do this because it's precious to hear them go through this long list of names in their head while their food is sitting in front of them but the food isn't the most important thing at that moment. I think they really have it right when it comes to gratitude. They don't go through a list of toys, video games or any material item that they're thankful for. They go through a list of the people they are glad to have in their life. What a good example to me to be thankful for so many great people in my life! Also, what a great reminder that my children don't want more stuff, they want more quality time. No matter what my budget, I can provide that! I want to think more like them. Simple and grateful.
Thursday, September 20, 2007
Thursday, September 13, 2007
13 People Who Have Inspired Me Recently
I'm stealing/borrowing this idea from my friend, Annie. She does Thursday's 13 every week. This is my first time but since today is Thursday the 13th, I felt it was appropriate!
This is in no particular order, just as thought came to me...
13. Bryant's 2nd grade teacher. She is AWESOME! We prayed that he'd have the right teacher and I'm certain she was Hand-picked for Bry! She is so fun but very articulate and firm. She is such a rare balance in a teacher. Usually they're very discipline oriented or fun oriented- she's the perfect blend of both!
12. The instructor for my photography class. He has such a unique approach to photography and the business side of things. It's been a good class to shake up my way of thinking on some things!
11. My girl, Delainey who reminds me not to take myself too seriously. She helps me to see the beauty in simple things and just enjoy each day that I've been given. I love her attitude like when I say, "We're going to buy groceries". She responds, "YAY!" Anything and everything is fun for DJ. I love that!
10. Ted and Karen, the hosts of our small group on Monday nights. I have no idea how they have their house cleaned and presentable, with 3 young children week after week. As inspiring as that is, the thing that really inspires me is their desire to open their home and honor God in such a sacrificial way.
9. My baby, Elle who shows me daily what unconditional love is really about. She thinks I am cool whether I'm wearing name brand or still in my old p.j.'s. She thinks I'm beautiful even before I've fixed my hair or put on make-up. She thinks I'm wonderful just as plain old me. And she thinks it's fun just to ride around on my hip without any additional entertainment. How cool is that?
8. My old friend, Angie who is strong and courageous and just moved to SC a few months ago. She inspires me because she is really having a hard time adjusting to living here. As we all know, moving to a different state with a modest income is HARD! I admire her because she is staying optimistic and continues to trust God even when so many things are scary and unclear. I can't wait to see things work out for her and I know they will.
7. My friend, Amanda, who I know from the Grand Canyon. She is my age, mother of two, very active and fit. Last November her heart stopped and her husband (a paramedic) had to bring her back. She inspires me because even though she has been through SO much in the last year, she stays focused and optimistic. She never feels sorry for herself or dwells on how hard it's been for her and her family. She is an amazing mom and woman. She sets a high standard and I continually use her as an example of the kind of woman I want to be.
6. Jim and June Warren, who are by far the coolest old people I have ever met. I've never known people in their 80's who are so with it and easy to talk to. They remind me of a couple in their 30's or 40's- in more ways than one. Jim and June inspire me in so many ways and have influenced our marriage hugely. They and are such a great example of staying in love through the years. Also, they inspire me to stay in touch with younger generations, no matter how old I am.
5. My friend, Annie , who I think is just wired with a servant's heart. She'll probably get mad at me for putting this on here because she wouldn't ever want any public credit, but too bad. She has been helping me with my girls so I can go to photography class and I continually overhear her offering to help others. Last week she made dinner for us when Caleb was out of town. Yesterday I heard her offer to watch a pregnant friend's little boy because they are moving into a new home. Tomorrow she's making a meal for a mutual friend who's son is in the hospital. Is that an example of a generous person or what? I want to give like that!
4. My son, Bryant. He has inspired me lately by his optimism and child-like faith. As we were waiting for the bus this morning, he said, "I think I hear the bus coming Mom. Will you pray for me before I go?" If he only knew how amazing he is! I love that kid so much!
3. My parents. Both of their pictures are in the dictionary, in case you didn't know. My dad's is under the word(s) "Hard Worker" and my mom's is under the word "Perseverance". I admire them and the attitude they have, especially when they're against all odds. They inspire me to press on in the toughest times!
2. My man, Caleb. What an example of a person with a good heart and good will towards others. I love so many things about Caleb, but his tenderness towards others has really impacted me lately. I love that he has such a soft spot for people who are hurting and doesn't ever want to a source of hurt for anyone. I love that he's man enough to tear up when he's moved by something. And I love that he will talk to anyone and treat them as his equal regardless of their social status, handicap or anything else.
1. My Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. I'm realizing over and over again that He really desires a relationship with me and even though it makes no sense at all, He sees me as valuable and precious. He wants me to love Him with all my heart, my mind, soul & strength. How often I worship the gift and not the Giver. "This stuff competes for the allegiance I owe only to the Giver of all good things." -Rich Mullins
This is in no particular order, just as thought came to me...
13. Bryant's 2nd grade teacher. She is AWESOME! We prayed that he'd have the right teacher and I'm certain she was Hand-picked for Bry! She is so fun but very articulate and firm. She is such a rare balance in a teacher. Usually they're very discipline oriented or fun oriented- she's the perfect blend of both!
12. The instructor for my photography class. He has such a unique approach to photography and the business side of things. It's been a good class to shake up my way of thinking on some things!
11. My girl, Delainey who reminds me not to take myself too seriously. She helps me to see the beauty in simple things and just enjoy each day that I've been given. I love her attitude like when I say, "We're going to buy groceries". She responds, "YAY!" Anything and everything is fun for DJ. I love that!
10. Ted and Karen, the hosts of our small group on Monday nights. I have no idea how they have their house cleaned and presentable, with 3 young children week after week. As inspiring as that is, the thing that really inspires me is their desire to open their home and honor God in such a sacrificial way.
9. My baby, Elle who shows me daily what unconditional love is really about. She thinks I am cool whether I'm wearing name brand or still in my old p.j.'s. She thinks I'm beautiful even before I've fixed my hair or put on make-up. She thinks I'm wonderful just as plain old me. And she thinks it's fun just to ride around on my hip without any additional entertainment. How cool is that?
8. My old friend, Angie who is strong and courageous and just moved to SC a few months ago. She inspires me because she is really having a hard time adjusting to living here. As we all know, moving to a different state with a modest income is HARD! I admire her because she is staying optimistic and continues to trust God even when so many things are scary and unclear. I can't wait to see things work out for her and I know they will.
7. My friend, Amanda, who I know from the Grand Canyon. She is my age, mother of two, very active and fit. Last November her heart stopped and her husband (a paramedic) had to bring her back. She inspires me because even though she has been through SO much in the last year, she stays focused and optimistic. She never feels sorry for herself or dwells on how hard it's been for her and her family. She is an amazing mom and woman. She sets a high standard and I continually use her as an example of the kind of woman I want to be.
6. Jim and June Warren, who are by far the coolest old people I have ever met. I've never known people in their 80's who are so with it and easy to talk to. They remind me of a couple in their 30's or 40's- in more ways than one. Jim and June inspire me in so many ways and have influenced our marriage hugely. They and are such a great example of staying in love through the years. Also, they inspire me to stay in touch with younger generations, no matter how old I am.
5. My friend, Annie , who I think is just wired with a servant's heart. She'll probably get mad at me for putting this on here because she wouldn't ever want any public credit, but too bad. She has been helping me with my girls so I can go to photography class and I continually overhear her offering to help others. Last week she made dinner for us when Caleb was out of town. Yesterday I heard her offer to watch a pregnant friend's little boy because they are moving into a new home. Tomorrow she's making a meal for a mutual friend who's son is in the hospital. Is that an example of a generous person or what? I want to give like that!
4. My son, Bryant. He has inspired me lately by his optimism and child-like faith. As we were waiting for the bus this morning, he said, "I think I hear the bus coming Mom. Will you pray for me before I go?" If he only knew how amazing he is! I love that kid so much!
3. My parents. Both of their pictures are in the dictionary, in case you didn't know. My dad's is under the word(s) "Hard Worker" and my mom's is under the word "Perseverance". I admire them and the attitude they have, especially when they're against all odds. They inspire me to press on in the toughest times!
2. My man, Caleb. What an example of a person with a good heart and good will towards others. I love so many things about Caleb, but his tenderness towards others has really impacted me lately. I love that he has such a soft spot for people who are hurting and doesn't ever want to a source of hurt for anyone. I love that he's man enough to tear up when he's moved by something. And I love that he will talk to anyone and treat them as his equal regardless of their social status, handicap or anything else.
1. My Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. I'm realizing over and over again that He really desires a relationship with me and even though it makes no sense at all, He sees me as valuable and precious. He wants me to love Him with all my heart, my mind, soul & strength. How often I worship the gift and not the Giver. "This stuff competes for the allegiance I owe only to the Giver of all good things." -Rich Mullins
Thursday, September 6, 2007
Lifetime of Learning...
I just completed week 2 of my second photography class at Charleston's Center for Photography. This class is great but a little intimidating because it's all about having your work critiqued by the instructor as well as the rest of the students in class. My first assignment went very well with a lot of great feedback (whew). In trying to grow myself into a better photographer, I've been getting out some of my old stuff that I photographed in prior years and critiquing myself. Thankfully, I'm my toughest critic because I'd die of humiliation if my class were as hard on me as I am on myself.
As I was looking at some of my older work I saw some really great stuff and then I saw some stuff I wish I'd never shot. In a way I guess that's good because I can see that I'm making progress. I sometimes would see a shot and realize my composition was all wrong or my exposure was not right. I would cringe and think "why didn't I see that?" With some images that I once thought were pretty good, I'm now throwing in the trash.
Life can be like that too. Sometimes when I think back to seasons in my life (some not too long ago), I cringe and think, "why didn't I see that?" or "why did I say that". I wonder why I acted in a certain way or lacked the wisdom and knowledge to handle myself better in a situation. Sometimes it's hard to look back and I don't think it's productive to do too often because we should continue to look forward and press on. Occasionally, I do think it can be useful to look back though, to learn from our selves and our own history. I sometimes think how I'd like to handle things if I got a "Do-over".
I'm so thankful that God doesn't require perfection from us. I would miss the mark every time. I'm also so glad He lets us learn and loves us enough to keep teaching us and refining us. I can't go back and re shoot all the great photographs I missed in years past or go undo all the wrong things I've done, but I can look for new opportunities with a better understanding of what I want to accomplish. Thank you God for allowing me to look back but not requiring me to.
As I was looking at some of my older work I saw some really great stuff and then I saw some stuff I wish I'd never shot. In a way I guess that's good because I can see that I'm making progress. I sometimes would see a shot and realize my composition was all wrong or my exposure was not right. I would cringe and think "why didn't I see that?" With some images that I once thought were pretty good, I'm now throwing in the trash.
Life can be like that too. Sometimes when I think back to seasons in my life (some not too long ago), I cringe and think, "why didn't I see that?" or "why did I say that". I wonder why I acted in a certain way or lacked the wisdom and knowledge to handle myself better in a situation. Sometimes it's hard to look back and I don't think it's productive to do too often because we should continue to look forward and press on. Occasionally, I do think it can be useful to look back though, to learn from our selves and our own history. I sometimes think how I'd like to handle things if I got a "Do-over".
I'm so thankful that God doesn't require perfection from us. I would miss the mark every time. I'm also so glad He lets us learn and loves us enough to keep teaching us and refining us. I can't go back and re shoot all the great photographs I missed in years past or go undo all the wrong things I've done, but I can look for new opportunities with a better understanding of what I want to accomplish. Thank you God for allowing me to look back but not requiring me to.
Friday, August 24, 2007
They keep us grinning
...the kids that is. They definitely keep us on our toes, but without a doubt, they give us a good laugh every single day. I say this often to friends who aren't sure if they want kids or who are getting ready to have a baby: "Parenting is the hardest job I've ever had but it is by far the most rewarding!"
Bry started 2nd grade this week at his new school and it's going very well. We are very pleased with his teacher. Our neighborhood was rezoned to a different school which at first seemed like one more unneeded change in his ever-changing world, but it has turned out to be a good thing. He bolts off the bus everyday with his wild blonde curls and a huge smile stretched across his tired face. After having him home all summer, by 2:00 I am missing that little Lego maniac!
On Wednesday, Bryant got off the bus and informed me, "The girl on the bus that was being a bully, she pinched my armpit! She said she knows where everyone lives and we can't get away from her. She also said she wants to get a nose ring, so she is DEFINITELY not the girl for me." Later I asked Bryant if he thought she was "the girl for him" before she mentioned her desire for the nasal decor. He replied, "No, but I'm pretty sure she thought I was the boy for her."
Just a little while ago I overheard Delainey having a pretend conversation on her Barbie cell phone. This is what I heard...
"Hi Casey, I'm sorry I missed your e-mail....unt-uh, no I haven't seen Dora..." It just cracks me up how she gets lost in her world of imagination. She's getting a little sassy lately, which isn't fun to deal with but my hope is that it will pass quickly. Overall, she's a delight. She is such a vibrant little thing and optimism is the biggest part of her thought process, which I love! Everyday is an adventure in the life of this 3 year old! What she lacks in size (often still in 18 month and 2T clothes!) she does more than make up for in her love for everyday life. The things we could learn from that kind of outlook!
It's hard to even picture Elle being sassy or anything but perfect at this point. But experience tells me I couldn't be further from reality if I buy into that train of thought. I'm sure by this time next year, she'll be picking fights with her older sibbling like the little chihuahua who picked on the big doberman. As much as I'd like to think differently, I'm certain she'll even talk back a time or two. As for now, we're enjoying the blissfulness of a sweet and precious little crawler who thinks her parents and her sibblings are the greatest people in the whole wide world.
We are immeasurably blessed!
Bry started 2nd grade this week at his new school and it's going very well. We are very pleased with his teacher. Our neighborhood was rezoned to a different school which at first seemed like one more unneeded change in his ever-changing world, but it has turned out to be a good thing. He bolts off the bus everyday with his wild blonde curls and a huge smile stretched across his tired face. After having him home all summer, by 2:00 I am missing that little Lego maniac!
On Wednesday, Bryant got off the bus and informed me, "The girl on the bus that was being a bully, she pinched my armpit! She said she knows where everyone lives and we can't get away from her. She also said she wants to get a nose ring, so she is DEFINITELY not the girl for me." Later I asked Bryant if he thought she was "the girl for him" before she mentioned her desire for the nasal decor. He replied, "No, but I'm pretty sure she thought I was the boy for her."
Just a little while ago I overheard Delainey having a pretend conversation on her Barbie cell phone. This is what I heard...
"Hi Casey, I'm sorry I missed your e-mail....unt-uh, no I haven't seen Dora..." It just cracks me up how she gets lost in her world of imagination. She's getting a little sassy lately, which isn't fun to deal with but my hope is that it will pass quickly. Overall, she's a delight. She is such a vibrant little thing and optimism is the biggest part of her thought process, which I love! Everyday is an adventure in the life of this 3 year old! What she lacks in size (often still in 18 month and 2T clothes!) she does more than make up for in her love for everyday life. The things we could learn from that kind of outlook!
It's hard to even picture Elle being sassy or anything but perfect at this point. But experience tells me I couldn't be further from reality if I buy into that train of thought. I'm sure by this time next year, she'll be picking fights with her older sibbling like the little chihuahua who picked on the big doberman. As much as I'd like to think differently, I'm certain she'll even talk back a time or two. As for now, we're enjoying the blissfulness of a sweet and precious little crawler who thinks her parents and her sibblings are the greatest people in the whole wide world.
We are immeasurably blessed!
Friday, August 17, 2007
Have you seen this man?
There is a very odd guy who pops up from time to time around our house. If you see him lurking around the neighborhood, I recommend calling the cops. He seems harmless but there is a cheesy way about him that makes me a little uneasy. He claims to be looking for his gold chain and disco shoes. Please let me know if you have any info on this weirdo.
Tuesday, August 14, 2007
Sweet Surprises
We returned safe and sound from a GREAT trip to Arizona! We were able to visit all of my extended family at my Grandma's 75th birthday party. That was a huge success with over 125 people there to celebrate her life and the legacy she has built. We celebrated at the beautiful San Marcos hotel in Chandler's historic district. It was great to see so many loved ones in one place. Being 2,000 miles away can make you value time with family far more than being in the same state.
This trip to Arizona was very emotional for me. I think it forced me to face the fact that I am very homesick and how much a I dearly love the west. I think I've convinced myself each time we've moved why this new place is better than the last. While there are so many wonderful things here in South Carolina (good school system for the kids, great programs for the kids, photography opportunities for me, classes, business opportunities... to name a few), I really miss my parents terribly. I don't like to use the word "hate", but I can honestly say there are times I HATE being so far away. I've also wondered about our journey and whether parts of it were necessary or not. I think mostly just wanting to see God's hand at work and some kind of reassurance from Him.
So as we packed up and headed back to the beautiful East coast, I was so full of conflicting emotions. So sad to leave some of the people I love the most. But optimistic and excited about Bryant's new school year and my photography business that is begining to blossom. I'm looking forward to taking more classes and minor things like landscaping our yard, but there are some strong heart strings that keep pulling my thoughts back to Arizona. I was feeling torn.
As we headed home on the long plane flight I sat wondering why went to Grand Canyon, only to leave Arizona again and now I'm homesick. What a fickle person I am. God must look at me as a problem child sometimes! I guess my only consolation is that He has us in mind and He wouldn't lead us anywhere without being with us each step of the way and having a plan. I trust He has a plan for our lives and it's a good one. (Jeremiah 29:11)
I came home to a very full inbox of e-mails. I began sorting through and found a very surprising e-mail from a sweet girl that I knew from Grand Canyon. I had never gotten an e-mail from her before and wondered how she got my address. She and I went through a short phase of writing letters after she moved off to college. She had fallen into a time in her life shadowed by rebellion and drugs. Her mom was in my women's Bible study group and I can't tell you how many times she pleaded with tears running down her cheeks for prayer for her beautiful young daughter. I had such a burden for this young lady maybe because I could feel her mom's pain and maybe because she reminded me a little of myself at that age. Last I heard from this girl, she was asking God a lot of questions and had some hurt and anger towards Christianity in general. Here's a small section of the e-mail I got from her:
"In the midst of my frustrating search (for a cd), I came upon a shoebox that I had stuffed letters and cards in and that's when I came across a letter you had sent me almost two years ago. It all came together and tears welled up in my eyes. I could hardly believe that I would forget about the short time we wrote letters back and forth. When I read the letter I realized how much God has worked on me since then, and I hadn't even realized how far I have come. Around March I renewed my faith in Christ and since then, He has been hard at work. I was re-baptized on June 16 this summer. The last two or three days I've been asking God to reveal more of Himself to me, I have been wanting to see more and know more of Him. And it's funny how He just pops up like a jack-in-the-box and says yeah, hi, told you I was here for you. Surprises are always fun. In your letter you said "God can open our eyes immensely when we give Him a bit of our time and attention" and I have been learning this more and more and more since I gave my life back to Christ.
Overall, I wanted to thank you for taking the time to write me and pray for me. I will honestly tell you that at the time, I appreciated your efforts but rejected the thoughts you had to offer me...now I just want you to know that this letter has impacted me more than you know. God used you in my life and I didn't even know it until 2 years after I received this letter. Thanks for the love, I could still feel the love in the words you wrote when i read the letter today and that means so much. And you quoted Jeremiah 29:11 a couple times...this verse has been a guiding and encouraging light on my path to seeking the Lord."
As if this encouraging e-mail wasn't enough, I received another unexpected e-mail from a dear lady who also was in Bible study with me at GC. She often would ask for prayer for her mom who was in a nursing home and who became a believer at the age of 87 (never give up, right?). It was a painful road for my friend Dianna who was so thankful that her mom excepted the Lord, but still wanted her mom to see God's goodness, trust Him and grow in His ways. This is hard enough for those of us who trust the Lord at a young age, not to mention someone closing in on 90! Dianna and I have kept in touch here and there since I moved. Everytime I think of Dianna, I can't help but to think about her mom and I've been compelled to pray for her because I know she is so dear to Dianna. Here's part of another amazing e-mail that waited for me in my inbox:
"Our three days with mom was a precious time and the hardest thing was to leave mom last Thursday believing I would likely not see her again this side of heaven. Mom's physical decline went very quick and hospice did a good job keeping her at a comfortable level and with alertness until the last few days. When I called mom Saturday a.m. the caregivers told me that mom was not responding to them at all and that was the first day she didn't accept water or food. They put the phone to mom's ear and I told her we were all thinking of her and loved her. Later in the afternoon, I FELT led to call her and read Psalm 23 to her and again the caregivers told me she hadn't been responding to them. I explained I still wanted to read to her and they put the phone to her ear. I very carefully read the Psalm verses, The Lord is my Shepherd...........and told her I loved her and waited for the caregiver to speak to me before saying goodbye...I heard mom breathing and trying to speak......The caregiver explained that mom's eyes were opened and she was hearing me and the caregiver encouraged me to continue to talk to mom, so of course I said OK! Then I prayed with mom thanking the Lord for so many things including the love that surrounded her at that moment in her senior home and our family, our own forgiveness and the healing and good memories I was left with. I then prayed for God to send angels into her room to escort her away to heaven with a new heavenly body when she was ready to go, with no more worries......... Then I heard the caregivers repeating mom's name over and over and I knew something was happening. They came back on the phone to tell me while I was praying with mom, they thought she took her last breaths and passed away -- -- and she did. What a beautiful gift that though I was miles away, God brought us together with spontaneous prayer by phone and mom breathed her last breath on earth. My prayer had been that God would take mom in her sleep peacefully BUT God had a better plan to include me and the caregivers that had grown to love her. What a witness it was. There are other "God things" that came to pass in those last days and I am truly in AWE of how God does work things together for those of us who love Him! For now, know God has answered prayers beyond belief with mom's salvation at age 87 (2 yrs ago) and my faith is only strengthened in spite of the hard road we traveled together. I am at peace and mom's wishes were to be cremated and scattered at sea (as my step dad was) and we will gather as a family in the future at some point. For now, it is well with my soul!! and moms too!!!"
I have been in such a time of wondering if I am totally missing the boat when it comes to God's direction. Sometimes I wonder why on earth we've had to move so much. Did we hear Him incorrectly? Have we made any connections that meant anything to anyone? Then I got these e-mails and although I don't have all the answers, I can see God at work. That is better than answered questions to me! I was so encouraged by these e-mails because I could clearly see God working in the lives of people I had the humbling priviledge to pray specifically for. These two e-mails revealed to me that when we are willing, God will use us. We may not see fruit for years, but God hears our prayers. It has encouraged me to keep praying for the ones I love so much. May we never give up on the hope we have in Christ!
"The LORD directs the steps of the godly.
He delights in every detail of their lives."
Psalm 37:23 NLT
This trip to Arizona was very emotional for me. I think it forced me to face the fact that I am very homesick and how much a I dearly love the west. I think I've convinced myself each time we've moved why this new place is better than the last. While there are so many wonderful things here in South Carolina (good school system for the kids, great programs for the kids, photography opportunities for me, classes, business opportunities... to name a few), I really miss my parents terribly. I don't like to use the word "hate", but I can honestly say there are times I HATE being so far away. I've also wondered about our journey and whether parts of it were necessary or not. I think mostly just wanting to see God's hand at work and some kind of reassurance from Him.
So as we packed up and headed back to the beautiful East coast, I was so full of conflicting emotions. So sad to leave some of the people I love the most. But optimistic and excited about Bryant's new school year and my photography business that is begining to blossom. I'm looking forward to taking more classes and minor things like landscaping our yard, but there are some strong heart strings that keep pulling my thoughts back to Arizona. I was feeling torn.
As we headed home on the long plane flight I sat wondering why went to Grand Canyon, only to leave Arizona again and now I'm homesick. What a fickle person I am. God must look at me as a problem child sometimes! I guess my only consolation is that He has us in mind and He wouldn't lead us anywhere without being with us each step of the way and having a plan. I trust He has a plan for our lives and it's a good one. (Jeremiah 29:11)
I came home to a very full inbox of e-mails. I began sorting through and found a very surprising e-mail from a sweet girl that I knew from Grand Canyon. I had never gotten an e-mail from her before and wondered how she got my address. She and I went through a short phase of writing letters after she moved off to college. She had fallen into a time in her life shadowed by rebellion and drugs. Her mom was in my women's Bible study group and I can't tell you how many times she pleaded with tears running down her cheeks for prayer for her beautiful young daughter. I had such a burden for this young lady maybe because I could feel her mom's pain and maybe because she reminded me a little of myself at that age. Last I heard from this girl, she was asking God a lot of questions and had some hurt and anger towards Christianity in general. Here's a small section of the e-mail I got from her:
"In the midst of my frustrating search (for a cd), I came upon a shoebox that I had stuffed letters and cards in and that's when I came across a letter you had sent me almost two years ago. It all came together and tears welled up in my eyes. I could hardly believe that I would forget about the short time we wrote letters back and forth. When I read the letter I realized how much God has worked on me since then, and I hadn't even realized how far I have come. Around March I renewed my faith in Christ and since then, He has been hard at work. I was re-baptized on June 16 this summer. The last two or three days I've been asking God to reveal more of Himself to me, I have been wanting to see more and know more of Him. And it's funny how He just pops up like a jack-in-the-box and says yeah, hi, told you I was here for you. Surprises are always fun. In your letter you said "God can open our eyes immensely when we give Him a bit of our time and attention" and I have been learning this more and more and more since I gave my life back to Christ.
Overall, I wanted to thank you for taking the time to write me and pray for me. I will honestly tell you that at the time, I appreciated your efforts but rejected the thoughts you had to offer me...now I just want you to know that this letter has impacted me more than you know. God used you in my life and I didn't even know it until 2 years after I received this letter. Thanks for the love, I could still feel the love in the words you wrote when i read the letter today and that means so much. And you quoted Jeremiah 29:11 a couple times...this verse has been a guiding and encouraging light on my path to seeking the Lord."
As if this encouraging e-mail wasn't enough, I received another unexpected e-mail from a dear lady who also was in Bible study with me at GC. She often would ask for prayer for her mom who was in a nursing home and who became a believer at the age of 87 (never give up, right?). It was a painful road for my friend Dianna who was so thankful that her mom excepted the Lord, but still wanted her mom to see God's goodness, trust Him and grow in His ways. This is hard enough for those of us who trust the Lord at a young age, not to mention someone closing in on 90! Dianna and I have kept in touch here and there since I moved. Everytime I think of Dianna, I can't help but to think about her mom and I've been compelled to pray for her because I know she is so dear to Dianna. Here's part of another amazing e-mail that waited for me in my inbox:
"Our three days with mom was a precious time and the hardest thing was to leave mom last Thursday believing I would likely not see her again this side of heaven. Mom's physical decline went very quick and hospice did a good job keeping her at a comfortable level and with alertness until the last few days. When I called mom Saturday a.m. the caregivers told me that mom was not responding to them at all and that was the first day she didn't accept water or food. They put the phone to mom's ear and I told her we were all thinking of her and loved her. Later in the afternoon, I FELT led to call her and read Psalm 23 to her and again the caregivers told me she hadn't been responding to them. I explained I still wanted to read to her and they put the phone to her ear. I very carefully read the Psalm verses, The Lord is my Shepherd...........and told her I loved her and waited for the caregiver to speak to me before saying goodbye...I heard mom breathing and trying to speak......The caregiver explained that mom's eyes were opened and she was hearing me and the caregiver encouraged me to continue to talk to mom, so of course I said OK! Then I prayed with mom thanking the Lord for so many things including the love that surrounded her at that moment in her senior home and our family, our own forgiveness and the healing and good memories I was left with. I then prayed for God to send angels into her room to escort her away to heaven with a new heavenly body when she was ready to go, with no more worries......... Then I heard the caregivers repeating mom's name over and over and I knew something was happening. They came back on the phone to tell me while I was praying with mom, they thought she took her last breaths and passed away -- -- and she did. What a beautiful gift that though I was miles away, God brought us together with spontaneous prayer by phone and mom breathed her last breath on earth. My prayer had been that God would take mom in her sleep peacefully BUT God had a better plan to include me and the caregivers that had grown to love her. What a witness it was. There are other "God things" that came to pass in those last days and I am truly in AWE of how God does work things together for those of us who love Him! For now, know God has answered prayers beyond belief with mom's salvation at age 87 (2 yrs ago) and my faith is only strengthened in spite of the hard road we traveled together. I am at peace and mom's wishes were to be cremated and scattered at sea (as my step dad was) and we will gather as a family in the future at some point. For now, it is well with my soul!! and moms too!!!"
I have been in such a time of wondering if I am totally missing the boat when it comes to God's direction. Sometimes I wonder why on earth we've had to move so much. Did we hear Him incorrectly? Have we made any connections that meant anything to anyone? Then I got these e-mails and although I don't have all the answers, I can see God at work. That is better than answered questions to me! I was so encouraged by these e-mails because I could clearly see God working in the lives of people I had the humbling priviledge to pray specifically for. These two e-mails revealed to me that when we are willing, God will use us. We may not see fruit for years, but God hears our prayers. It has encouraged me to keep praying for the ones I love so much. May we never give up on the hope we have in Christ!
"The LORD directs the steps of the godly.
He delights in every detail of their lives."
Psalm 37:23 NLT
Monday, July 30, 2007
Something to think on...
I stumbled upon this quote and it spoke volumes to me, so I wanted to share it on our blog:
"All of us are called to a place we have not been. Our lives were always intended to be journeys into the unknown. The invitation is both personal and mystical. No one else may fully understand what you are being called to. You may not even fully understand. The path you must walk may appear to others as strange or unreasonable, but you know there's more going on than meets the eye." -Erwin Mcmanus
"All of us are called to a place we have not been. Our lives were always intended to be journeys into the unknown. The invitation is both personal and mystical. No one else may fully understand what you are being called to. You may not even fully understand. The path you must walk may appear to others as strange or unreasonable, but you know there's more going on than meets the eye." -Erwin Mcmanus
Tuesday, July 17, 2007
Fun Summer So Far
Our Michigan trip was a blast this year. The kids had such an amazing time playing with their cousins, swimming and taking very few baths over the course of 10 days. I think the kids will look back on that trip with some terrific memories.
The day we traveled to Michigan was a little rough. This was our first time flying with 3 children. Our 3 hour layover in Atlanta turned into 5 hours when our flight was delayed. That was a little challenging, but the kids did better than I would have expected. They were so excited to be going to Granny and Pop's house that they stayed on their best behavior. Thankfully, the trip home was much easier and faster.
Once we got there, it was non-stop activity. Family get-togethers, photo shoots, and friends to see were all on the agenda. I had 6 photo shoots lined up during our time there, which kept me hopping. Busy, busy, busy. We had a huge family reunion on the 4th of July and family Olympics, which was a great time of "friendly competition" with fun games that involved things like beach towels, pool noodles and water balloon launchers. Our team took 3rd out of about a dozen teams. We were pretty pleased about that.
We also had a surprise 40th anniversary "Deck Building Party" for Caleb's parents while we were there. Jaime and Molly were in charge of keeping the parents distracted. We got up bright and early (that should have been their first clue that we were up to something) and took Caleb's parents along with our children to the zoo for a few hours. From there we sent the grandparents off to watch a movie with the kids. In the meantime, Caleb and his brothers, along with about 5 other guys (one who is a friend of the family and a professional builder) worked diligently to build a deck on the back of their parents' house. I was a little skeptical that it could be done in 6 hours, but I'm happy to say I was wrong. The deck looked awesome by the time Caleb's parents got home. Shortly after, lots of family, friends and neighbors arrived and we had a big party with lots of food and fun on the new deck.
We're having a great summer. It's been much more fun-filled than I anticipated. I've been steadily busy with photography work averaging about 1 photo shoot a week. This week we've been remodeling our sun room into a more workable office space. I will post some pictures soon of our new home office space when it's completed. I'm also doing an aerobics class called Body and Soul and I love it! My biggest challenge this summer is trying to keep the kids busy during the day since it's so hot outside. Today I took them to Chick Fil'A to the play place to get them out of the house. (Feel free to leave a comment on any ideas to keep them happy during these brutal summer months.)
Next we will venture to Arizona to see my family for about 10 days. We can't wait! We'll get to see a ton of my extended family on that trip too because we're getting together for my grandma's 75th Birthday celebration.
We'll come home and then it will be time for Bryant to start 2nd grade. Can you believe that? It seems like the pages are just flying off the calendar. We'll just keep soaking up the sun and enjoying the fun of summer because it will be over before we know it.
The day we traveled to Michigan was a little rough. This was our first time flying with 3 children. Our 3 hour layover in Atlanta turned into 5 hours when our flight was delayed. That was a little challenging, but the kids did better than I would have expected. They were so excited to be going to Granny and Pop's house that they stayed on their best behavior. Thankfully, the trip home was much easier and faster.
Once we got there, it was non-stop activity. Family get-togethers, photo shoots, and friends to see were all on the agenda. I had 6 photo shoots lined up during our time there, which kept me hopping. Busy, busy, busy. We had a huge family reunion on the 4th of July and family Olympics, which was a great time of "friendly competition" with fun games that involved things like beach towels, pool noodles and water balloon launchers. Our team took 3rd out of about a dozen teams. We were pretty pleased about that.
We also had a surprise 40th anniversary "Deck Building Party" for Caleb's parents while we were there. Jaime and Molly were in charge of keeping the parents distracted. We got up bright and early (that should have been their first clue that we were up to something) and took Caleb's parents along with our children to the zoo for a few hours. From there we sent the grandparents off to watch a movie with the kids. In the meantime, Caleb and his brothers, along with about 5 other guys (one who is a friend of the family and a professional builder) worked diligently to build a deck on the back of their parents' house. I was a little skeptical that it could be done in 6 hours, but I'm happy to say I was wrong. The deck looked awesome by the time Caleb's parents got home. Shortly after, lots of family, friends and neighbors arrived and we had a big party with lots of food and fun on the new deck.
We're having a great summer. It's been much more fun-filled than I anticipated. I've been steadily busy with photography work averaging about 1 photo shoot a week. This week we've been remodeling our sun room into a more workable office space. I will post some pictures soon of our new home office space when it's completed. I'm also doing an aerobics class called Body and Soul and I love it! My biggest challenge this summer is trying to keep the kids busy during the day since it's so hot outside. Today I took them to Chick Fil'A to the play place to get them out of the house. (Feel free to leave a comment on any ideas to keep them happy during these brutal summer months.)
Next we will venture to Arizona to see my family for about 10 days. We can't wait! We'll get to see a ton of my extended family on that trip too because we're getting together for my grandma's 75th Birthday celebration.
We'll come home and then it will be time for Bryant to start 2nd grade. Can you believe that? It seems like the pages are just flying off the calendar. We'll just keep soaking up the sun and enjoying the fun of summer because it will be over before we know it.
Sunday, June 24, 2007
Time to buy a guest book!
Since we arrived in the Charleston area we have had a considerable amount of company. It has been wonderful. We weren't even in our house a month when the company began to come. We feel so loved and we appreciate everyone who has traveled and made such an effort to visit us:
January:
Caleb's mom
Jaime's mom
March:
Hunter Bailey
Caleb's parents
April:
Jaime's parents
Kenda, Brandon, Dylan & Kenzie
May:
Angie Snyder & Lana Shaw
Angela Boyers
June:
Angie Snyder
We are very excited about 2 big trips we get to take in the upcoming months. We will get to be the guest this time around! Later this week we will head to Michigan for about 10 days and see all of Caleb's family for the 4th of July. It will be a great opportunity to see the entire Michigan clan as well as Josh & his family from Minnesota! We can't wait!
Then a couple weeks after that, we are heading to Arizona for about 10 days too! We couldn't be happier about the chance to get back there and attend Grandma Lois' 75th birthday party! Again, we will get to see the entire Arizona clan and the California group as well. I love that we will get to see so many members of our extended families in July and August! We are so thankful to get to take both of these trips.
So far, it has been a great summer! Caleb and I just celebrated our 8th anniversary this week! We had a date night last night (thanks to our good friend Angie Snyder who came down from Rock Hill to babysit). We had a nice dinner followed by a very long, romantic walk through historical Charleston. It was absolutely perfect! (When you come visit, plan on plenty of time to walk downtown. There is so much to see and do, we LOVE it!)
One thing that was pretty comical this week was Delainey's dentist appointment. Have you ever seen a 3 year old on sedative? It's hilarious for about 5 minutes, then you just want your little girl back to her normal self. She couldn't hold her head up, but was determined that she could walk just fine. When she tried to eat or drink, she couldn't even get the food or drink to her mouth. We were glad the next morning when she returned to her normal little self.
My photography class ended last week and was a great success. I learned a lot and became reinspired. I'm buying a digital SLR this week- so excited! I'm looking forward to learning more and pursuing that avenue with more confidence and excitement!
I started a workout class at our church 2 days a week called, "Body and Soul". I love it! Hoping to loose that stubborn 10 pounds of pregnancy weight. Living near so many beaches has quickly motivated me to feel better in a swim suit!
This week will be full of laundry, packing and preparing to be away for a week and a half. Can't wait to see all of our peeps back home!!
January:
Caleb's mom
Jaime's mom
March:
Hunter Bailey
Caleb's parents
April:
Jaime's parents
Kenda, Brandon, Dylan & Kenzie
May:
Angie Snyder & Lana Shaw
Angela Boyers
June:
Angie Snyder
We are very excited about 2 big trips we get to take in the upcoming months. We will get to be the guest this time around! Later this week we will head to Michigan for about 10 days and see all of Caleb's family for the 4th of July. It will be a great opportunity to see the entire Michigan clan as well as Josh & his family from Minnesota! We can't wait!
Then a couple weeks after that, we are heading to Arizona for about 10 days too! We couldn't be happier about the chance to get back there and attend Grandma Lois' 75th birthday party! Again, we will get to see the entire Arizona clan and the California group as well. I love that we will get to see so many members of our extended families in July and August! We are so thankful to get to take both of these trips.
So far, it has been a great summer! Caleb and I just celebrated our 8th anniversary this week! We had a date night last night (thanks to our good friend Angie Snyder who came down from Rock Hill to babysit). We had a nice dinner followed by a very long, romantic walk through historical Charleston. It was absolutely perfect! (When you come visit, plan on plenty of time to walk downtown. There is so much to see and do, we LOVE it!)
One thing that was pretty comical this week was Delainey's dentist appointment. Have you ever seen a 3 year old on sedative? It's hilarious for about 5 minutes, then you just want your little girl back to her normal self. She couldn't hold her head up, but was determined that she could walk just fine. When she tried to eat or drink, she couldn't even get the food or drink to her mouth. We were glad the next morning when she returned to her normal little self.
My photography class ended last week and was a great success. I learned a lot and became reinspired. I'm buying a digital SLR this week- so excited! I'm looking forward to learning more and pursuing that avenue with more confidence and excitement!
I started a workout class at our church 2 days a week called, "Body and Soul". I love it! Hoping to loose that stubborn 10 pounds of pregnancy weight. Living near so many beaches has quickly motivated me to feel better in a swim suit!
This week will be full of laundry, packing and preparing to be away for a week and a half. Can't wait to see all of our peeps back home!!
Tuesday, June 12, 2007
"The Best Dream Ever"
Even though it's summer break, this week we are up early and on a schedule. Bryant has VBS for 3 hours each morning and then 1 hour of swim lessons each day. So this morning Elle and I went into Bry's dimly lit room to get him up for the day. Elle and I did this each morning when school was still in. It is a win/win situation: Elle squeals with ecstatic with joy to see Bryant's face emerge from his blankets. Bryant wakes up in a much better mood when Elle is the one waking him. He actually seems happy to wake up for his sweet baby sister. And I'm happier because he's not a grump to me!! It works out beautifully.
Well, this morning, Elle and I tiptoed into Bry's room and gently laid on his bed next to him for a little cuddle time. Elle quickly went into "attack mode", as usual, and began squirming with delight to "get" Bryant. She LOVES to crawl on him, and rough him up a little, which to him feels like a gentle back rub but she really thinks she's being tough. It's so fun to watch.
As Bry began waking up, he said in complete disappointment, "Aw Mom! You woke me up from the best dream ever!" As I asked what he was dreaming about, he went on to describe his "best dream ever", it was so sweet. He said he was dreaming of being at a hotel with Momo, Papa, Brandon, Dylan & Kenzie. They were swimming at the pool and got to have a really nice breakfast... then Elle and I came in and ended it!
I love the things that are so special to kids. I think the thing that made this dream Bryant's "best ever" wasn't the swimming, the breakfast or the hotel. I think it's that he got to "spend a little time" with some of his favorite people on earth. Just this once, I wish I would have let him sleep in a little bit more, a few more minutes with some of his favorite people. If I would have known, Elle and I would have delayed a little while longer.
My children continue to teach me what really things really are the "best" things in life. Time with the ones we love, is there anything more valuable? May we keep dreaming about time together, until we get to make those dreams a reality.
Well, this morning, Elle and I tiptoed into Bry's room and gently laid on his bed next to him for a little cuddle time. Elle quickly went into "attack mode", as usual, and began squirming with delight to "get" Bryant. She LOVES to crawl on him, and rough him up a little, which to him feels like a gentle back rub but she really thinks she's being tough. It's so fun to watch.
As Bry began waking up, he said in complete disappointment, "Aw Mom! You woke me up from the best dream ever!" As I asked what he was dreaming about, he went on to describe his "best dream ever", it was so sweet. He said he was dreaming of being at a hotel with Momo, Papa, Brandon, Dylan & Kenzie. They were swimming at the pool and got to have a really nice breakfast... then Elle and I came in and ended it!
I love the things that are so special to kids. I think the thing that made this dream Bryant's "best ever" wasn't the swimming, the breakfast or the hotel. I think it's that he got to "spend a little time" with some of his favorite people on earth. Just this once, I wish I would have let him sleep in a little bit more, a few more minutes with some of his favorite people. If I would have known, Elle and I would have delayed a little while longer.
My children continue to teach me what really things really are the "best" things in life. Time with the ones we love, is there anything more valuable? May we keep dreaming about time together, until we get to make those dreams a reality.
Friday, June 1, 2007
Summer in the South!
Some might say moving from dry Arizona to humid South Carolina is courageous. Others would say it's CRAZY. Considering I thought it felt a little humid when we arrived in December, I'm going with the later. We're currently in a "drought", which would still be considered a moist season in the desert. So we haven't experienced the humidity at it's worst. I'm in no hurry to experience it first-hand, but I'm sure it's in our near future.
Bryant has been out of school for one week now. He is enjoying lazy days and came up with a little checklist of things to accomplish each day. He starts swim lessons next week and VBS the following week. He is most excited about our trip to Michigan so he can see his cousins Lily & Maisy that he misses so much! He is also thrilled about his older cousins, Brandon & Dylan visiting us here again. We can't wait. He is still the Lego king and his creativity amazes me. Always building a new Star Wars ship and was just describing to me the importance of aerodynamics to make the things travel faster.
Last week Caleb took Bry to buy a set of his very own golf clubs! This was very exciting for them both. After they bought the set, they went to the driving range and hit balls. Bryant was hooked instantly. He can sometimes be seen getting his clubs out of the garage and heading to the backyard to "practice putting". Where does the time go? It doesn't seem like very long ago we were watching him hit with his little plastic set in our horribly rocky yard in Ajo.
Delainey turns 3 in just a few days. Unbelievable! I can't believe that dark haired, one dimpled little baby that no longer looks anything like her baby pictures, is already 3. She is a joy! If she's awake, her raspy voice can be heard throughout the house, saying things like, "The cottage cheese is taking a bath in the applesauce." She wants to talk about anything and everything from lipgloss to the scratch on her knee. She loves anything girlie, but handles getting dirty in the yard just fine. She is all about having FUN! What a vivacious little thing she is. And she is a TALKER! Where could she have gotten that from? What a wild ride this parenting thing is!
Little Elle is 17 pounds of pure sweetness. She is getting more curious and starting to venture into different rooms now. It's fun to see her discover her independence. She seems much more timid than Bry and DJ were, even at this early age. She gets shy when people talk to her, by turning away with a grin and hiding her face. If I had to choose one word to describe her, it would be, "lovely". She is simply, "lovely". I remember right when she was born, Caleb scooped her up and began to sing the old song, "Isn't she lovely?". He had no idea just how right he was!
She got her first two teeth about a week and a half ago. The two bottom, middles. They arrived a day apart. She babbles, "Dada" all the time. I think she tries to say Mama, but it comes out, "Papa". What's up with that? That's Caleb's claim to fame, how all the kids said his name first.
Caleb & I are doing very well. We really miss friends and family, as we knew we would. Chasing 3 little ones keeps us extremely busy, which helps. Caleb still runs quite a bit (25-30 miles a week) and plays golf everytime the budget will allow. As for me, I'm currently taking a photography class which I am ecstatic about! I'm learning a lot and growing in knowledge and skill. I hope this is the first of many classes, making me better and sharper as I go.
Can you believe this month Caleb and I are approaching our 8th anniversary? So much life in 8 short years! I cannot believe all the adventures we've had and such amazing friends we've made along the way. We truly are blessed!
Why on earth did God choose to bless me with this family? I just don't get it. Some days I feel like I'm doing great as a mom and other days I feel clueless and completely undeserving. Thankfully, God doesn't require perfection, just willingness.
Lord, make me more willing to be the mother you want me to be. Give me wisdom and patience because I really need them.
Bryant has been out of school for one week now. He is enjoying lazy days and came up with a little checklist of things to accomplish each day. He starts swim lessons next week and VBS the following week. He is most excited about our trip to Michigan so he can see his cousins Lily & Maisy that he misses so much! He is also thrilled about his older cousins, Brandon & Dylan visiting us here again. We can't wait. He is still the Lego king and his creativity amazes me. Always building a new Star Wars ship and was just describing to me the importance of aerodynamics to make the things travel faster.
Last week Caleb took Bry to buy a set of his very own golf clubs! This was very exciting for them both. After they bought the set, they went to the driving range and hit balls. Bryant was hooked instantly. He can sometimes be seen getting his clubs out of the garage and heading to the backyard to "practice putting". Where does the time go? It doesn't seem like very long ago we were watching him hit with his little plastic set in our horribly rocky yard in Ajo.
Delainey turns 3 in just a few days. Unbelievable! I can't believe that dark haired, one dimpled little baby that no longer looks anything like her baby pictures, is already 3. She is a joy! If she's awake, her raspy voice can be heard throughout the house, saying things like, "The cottage cheese is taking a bath in the applesauce." She wants to talk about anything and everything from lipgloss to the scratch on her knee. She loves anything girlie, but handles getting dirty in the yard just fine. She is all about having FUN! What a vivacious little thing she is. And she is a TALKER! Where could she have gotten that from? What a wild ride this parenting thing is!
Little Elle is 17 pounds of pure sweetness. She is getting more curious and starting to venture into different rooms now. It's fun to see her discover her independence. She seems much more timid than Bry and DJ were, even at this early age. She gets shy when people talk to her, by turning away with a grin and hiding her face. If I had to choose one word to describe her, it would be, "lovely". She is simply, "lovely". I remember right when she was born, Caleb scooped her up and began to sing the old song, "Isn't she lovely?". He had no idea just how right he was!
She got her first two teeth about a week and a half ago. The two bottom, middles. They arrived a day apart. She babbles, "Dada" all the time. I think she tries to say Mama, but it comes out, "Papa". What's up with that? That's Caleb's claim to fame, how all the kids said his name first.
Caleb & I are doing very well. We really miss friends and family, as we knew we would. Chasing 3 little ones keeps us extremely busy, which helps. Caleb still runs quite a bit (25-30 miles a week) and plays golf everytime the budget will allow. As for me, I'm currently taking a photography class which I am ecstatic about! I'm learning a lot and growing in knowledge and skill. I hope this is the first of many classes, making me better and sharper as I go.
Can you believe this month Caleb and I are approaching our 8th anniversary? So much life in 8 short years! I cannot believe all the adventures we've had and such amazing friends we've made along the way. We truly are blessed!
Why on earth did God choose to bless me with this family? I just don't get it. Some days I feel like I'm doing great as a mom and other days I feel clueless and completely undeserving. Thankfully, God doesn't require perfection, just willingness.
Lord, make me more willing to be the mother you want me to be. Give me wisdom and patience because I really need them.
Monday, May 14, 2007
Catching up and catching our breath
I decided to do this blog so friends and family could have an opportunity to keep up on our ever-changing lives. We've been in SC for just about 6 months now. It's amazing how much can take place in such a short amount of time!! We are settling in and really enjoying it here. We hope that this is a long-term move for us. We have been so busy, not just in the last 6 months, but in the last few years! I was thinking the other day about how much we have done since things really started getting crazy in 2004.
Here's a quick summary:
June 2004 We were blessed with our precious Delainey entering into our world.
July 2004 Decided to sell our house in Ajo & moved across town.
December 2004 We put everything we owned into storage & moved 2 kids 2,000 miles away to Georgia for FLETC . We lived in a furnished home and only had clothes and bare necessities that we could fit into our small car. We made the best of this time by spending many days on the beach, visiting Savanah and Jacksonville, FL. We found St.Simon's Community Church there and loved it. We still have some friends there that we keep in touch with.
May 2005 Took our family and the small amount of things we could fit into our car over 2,000 miles again to South Dakota while Caleb did field training at Mt. Rushmore. Here we enjoyed gorgeous views, fishing, hiking, and many wild life loop trips to see hundreds of buffalo and other amazing things. We found a wonderful couple to rent a small stuido apartment from for those 3 months. Fun times, hilarious memories! Who knew a family of 4 could comfortably live in such small quarters!
August 2005 We returned to AZ and moved to the Grand Canyon (finally got our things from storage). What an amazing time that was. We made some neat friends and loved the opportunity to live and work with NPS people. We loved having huge elk and deer walk through our yard regularly. We made friendships with NPS that will last a lifetime.
September 2006 Our sweet Elliotte was born! What a doll. Both Grandmas were there for her birth. Bryant and Delainey both were captivated by this sweet new addition to our family.
November 2006 Moved everything we owned and our 3 young children over 2,000 miles again (are we seeing a pattern here?) to the Charleston-area of South Carolina. And here we are.
Whew! Take a deep breath. I know we are. I told Caleb we can't have any more babies because every time we have a baby we move at least 2,000 miles away. How many times can a family move from one side of the country to the other??? We hope our HUGE moving days are over. We are settling in nicely here. We love the opportunities available to all of us. We miss our family so much, but thankfully we live in a day and age that keeping in touch and visiting each other is easy.
We love you all very much and can't wait until the next time we get to give you a hug and share some laughs.
Here's a quick summary:
June 2004 We were blessed with our precious Delainey entering into our world.
July 2004 Decided to sell our house in Ajo & moved across town.
December 2004 We put everything we owned into storage & moved 2 kids 2,000 miles away to Georgia for FLETC . We lived in a furnished home and only had clothes and bare necessities that we could fit into our small car. We made the best of this time by spending many days on the beach, visiting Savanah and Jacksonville, FL. We found St.Simon's Community Church there and loved it. We still have some friends there that we keep in touch with.
May 2005 Took our family and the small amount of things we could fit into our car over 2,000 miles again to South Dakota while Caleb did field training at Mt. Rushmore. Here we enjoyed gorgeous views, fishing, hiking, and many wild life loop trips to see hundreds of buffalo and other amazing things. We found a wonderful couple to rent a small stuido apartment from for those 3 months. Fun times, hilarious memories! Who knew a family of 4 could comfortably live in such small quarters!
August 2005 We returned to AZ and moved to the Grand Canyon (finally got our things from storage). What an amazing time that was. We made some neat friends and loved the opportunity to live and work with NPS people. We loved having huge elk and deer walk through our yard regularly. We made friendships with NPS that will last a lifetime.
September 2006 Our sweet Elliotte was born! What a doll. Both Grandmas were there for her birth. Bryant and Delainey both were captivated by this sweet new addition to our family.
November 2006 Moved everything we owned and our 3 young children over 2,000 miles again (are we seeing a pattern here?) to the Charleston-area of South Carolina. And here we are.
Whew! Take a deep breath. I know we are. I told Caleb we can't have any more babies because every time we have a baby we move at least 2,000 miles away. How many times can a family move from one side of the country to the other??? We hope our HUGE moving days are over. We are settling in nicely here. We love the opportunities available to all of us. We miss our family so much, but thankfully we live in a day and age that keeping in touch and visiting each other is easy.
We love you all very much and can't wait until the next time we get to give you a hug and share some laughs.
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